How many people are actually concerned about the “homeless,” I wonder? My husband and I often talk about it when we watch the news or a documentary on TV about it. Do you find it annoying or do you find have answers to this outburst of people who have lost the ability to care for themselves? Many people “think,” it is because of only alcohol and drugs that an individual would decide to live on the cold, calculating streets can be. Aren’t there many contributing factors that have lead to the downfall of our society? We also watch the TV program called “Hoarders,” and this reminds me of the state of mind of people who choose to live on the streets.
Although, I am concerned about people living on the streets, I find it annoying too. I think it is inhumane for us to stand by and watch people dig out of the garbages for who knows what? I find it annoying to have to drive by people holding signs asking for money without asking the question. There signs usually say, “Anything Helps. Thank you.” I get annoyed by this because I have four children that I am providing for, and we are just getting by. I was raised with Christian values. When a person asks, you give, or rather they shall receive.
Solutions to this problem are more like enabled. Places that help people are homeless feed them, provide them a place to sleep for the night. Some provide computers to help them find jobs, I guess. It seems a fine line to help when there needs to be more guidelines for help. If people wanted help, we would teach them to help themselves again. We would get to the “Root Cause,” of their problems. If they have physical and or mental disabilities, we need to support those individuals in other ways. If a person suffered a loss, we need to guide that person through the grieving stages. If a person is dealing with alcohol and drug addiction, we need to provide counsellor’s who can help guide a person to want to help him/herself.
My experience with alchol is people have to want it, change, to be free from alcohol. They have hit bottom by living on the streets. No, you can’t force a person to want help, but you can place “intervention-like” thoughts on his/her mind. When provided food, put him/her to work. Give him or her work to work for his/her food. If that sounds inhumane, it’s not. If this was your own brother or sister, would you?
To me, homelessness is a state of mind. It is the next best thing to suicide. A person gets to a state of mind that he/she feels helpless and hopeless. Whether it’s alcohol or drugs, or grief. Which leads me to believe that, that results in a person’s lack of ability to cope with everyday life. Some people believe that individuals suffer great mental abilities and the lack of support contributed by society to support those persons.
On the surface, alcohol or drugs is a way to deal with or not deal with a problem. For example, if a woman had been sexually abused at a young age, and to cover up her pain, she started drinking. She began drinking to the point of no control, isn’t it possible that she received no support from family and/or friends to help her deal with this issue? Or perhaps the way her family dynamics worked, and upbringing worked the family was very dysfunctional to begin with.
From my experience with alcohol, one has to want help. Individuals have most certainly, “hit bottom,” when they are living on the streets. There must be “intervention-like” measures to allow individuals to want to help themselves. Because it seems, “giving them food,” is not helping. It is more like enabling him or her. I realize that it may seem harsh, but it is the harsh reality for a person to realize “the hand-outs” will no longer be there, unless he/she becomes willing to help themselves. Such as being required to go to counselling 3x a week to receive food. To go to lifeskills training 2x a week to get help with clothing. It is like children, their has to be incentive for them to want them to help themselves. I am suggesting a problem I see with the homelessness issue. When you have something to complain about, offer a solution.
Whoever saw today’s problems in our world today, homelessness? Is it a result of globalization? Is is result of poverty, as the cost of living is high, and the minimum wage is low. The cost of food and fuel are both high. All of these things are contributing factors, aren’t they? I am thinking out loud here.
It is a real concern for man, as the going-concerns is concerned. Don’t we all have a responsibility to help each other? I don’t think we can come up with “the answer,” until sacrifices are made. There is plenty to go around. The rich are getting richer, the poor are getting poorerer.
Tell me your thoughts on homelessness.
Amazing Annie